Thursday, August 15, 2013

Praise the Country... At-least For This SPECIAL DAY...

15 August... Our INDEPENDENCE DAY...
Remember, in school days, whenever w deliver our speeches or thoughts in a debate, about our country, we always use to count the best things regarding our Nation, regarding the leaders, people fought for the independence, regarding the dreams that we want to do this for our country, we will do something for the country, regarding the martyrs... and many such more things...
But, now when we are "grown ups" and became elders, n can hold responsibilities, then why we just talk about the corruption, politics, down-falls, rising rates, and many more... seems like we just have a very disgraceful Nation, where nothing is right... but, we just talk... we don't do anything... And whenever you'll ask to someone{who is commenting such, then for sure, you'll get an answer "What we can do in that?"}
Ohh, common...
OK, let's accept all those remarks, ki our Nation's politicians are very very bad, our Country is moving on a wrong path... etc. etc... But just we questions...
* Which politician asked you to kill infants girls?
* Which politician asked you for doing child marriages?
* Which politician asked you to rape a girl and then either kill her or throw her somewhere?
* Which politician asked you to rag your junior till that limit, that they commit suicide?
* Which politician asked you to break the laws?
* Which politician asked you to ride three people in one two-wheeler?
* Which politician asked you to carry 3 to 4 sim cards, of different {n many false} ids?
* Which politician asked you to take admission in colleges through donation {management quota}?
* Which politician asked you, not to study n then get passed with good marks through some means?
* Which politicians asked you not to celebrate 15 Aug. n 26 Jan. as your Independence day n Republic day respectively, instead to celebrate them as National holiday?
* Which politician asked to mix water in milk?
* Which politician asked you to give bribe, for either fasten the process of your work or work done?
* Which politician asked you for rash driving, or drink-n-drive, or drive without license?
* Which politician asked you to save your taxes through different means?
* Which politician asked you not to carry Indian brands, instead show the attitude by carrying some foreign brand?
And many-many such more things you'll find yourself, when you look around seriously.
And, if really any politician asked you to do such things, and I am unaware, then please do tell me.

I am not saying that politicians are good, or they didn't done anything wrong, but if you got little power, then you are using it in your level, so they got the bigger power and they using it in their level. Just the simple funda, as you want to grow, so as them. It's all about who got the chances man.
If by-chance, by your point of view, I am wrong {may be, it's all about the perceptions}, so why you want your kinds or siblings to join the Science stream n then become a Doctor or Engineer and join the best college, then go to foreign countries for further studies n then get settled their only with best package. Or take commerce, then be a CA, and join some best MNC in a metro n get settled with a good girl and all. Or, do MBA form IIMs or some another best Business Schools n join good company or, have your own business. Or do little hard studies and join governmental services, so that the future will be secured. And same thinking you carry for yourself also. Chalo, through governmental service, somewhere or other your serve for the Country, but why not Army, Navy or Air-forces. Or, if you have so much problem from the politics, then why not to study Political Science, Sociology or Economics n then enter to politics n serve the Nation. It's just like, when the writers writes, everybody says. "Ohh common, anybody can write". But, when you handle them a piece of paper n pen and ask them to write, they starts sweating or shivering, or make silly excuses. ;)
But, when you'll enter the politics then... if you done the same then... you'll have no regrets, caz everybody is doing there... you'll not ashamed of yourself... HAI NA!!!

Sometimes I think of that old song... Bacche man ke sacche, from the movie Do Kaliyaan... How beautifully Sahir Ludhianvi Sahab written the truth... that...
Insaan jab tak baccha hai, tab tak samjho kaccha hai
Jyon-jyon iski umar badhe, man pe jhooth ka mail chadhe
Krodh badhe, nafrat ghere... laalach ki adat ghere
Bachpan in papon se hatkar apni raah gujaare...  


How meaningful, n how true...
I read somewhere that, "never kill the kid inside you"

So, a humble request... just for one day, be a kid, and remember all those things on which you feel proud for THE NATION, where many different languages, many different cultures, many different looks lives together...
And this "dispute" word is the ritual of our Country, whether it's between parties, people or thoughts... When it didn't pardoned two great leaders who fought for this Independence we are enjoying... Shahid Bhagat Singh ji and Mahtma Gandhi ji... then whom you think it will forgive...
Feel Really Proud To Be An INDIAN...

JAI HIND...




Picture courtesy:- Google.



Monday, August 5, 2013

It's been 10 years... really???

It's been 10 years...
Can't believe it...
Just 10 years back... same date, 5th August 2003...
Mummy, Papa, Bhai were with me... having tears and worry in their eyes... watching me by a small glass with hope, that everything will alright soon...
Yes, it was the day of my first surgery...
Can't believe that I am writing of these things...
Actually, never ever thought that I will write someday... but this day{05/08/03} changed my life, my perceptions and my goal a lot...
This was the time when I wrote my first complete poem... {u can read it at  MY POEM... 1st}
And I think, I was not mature enough before this period of time... but after this, my thinking also changed...

Believe me, in any such thing, not only the patient suffers but the whole family around suffers...
Well, in my case, the suffering started when I reached home... I got complete bed-rest for 3 months... so can't leave bed and also much more burden on mummy-papa...
Relatives, friends, people from Papa's office were use to come anytime... and then those sympathies... Oh my god!!! save me... I just hate them... It was like that I'm the only one who have to suffer from such problem... plzzz, there are many more...
And then, mummy use to get busy in the hospitality of these guests... she also gets tired from morning to night...
Everyone in the home was busy in all such things only... and at the same time my Nani {maternal grandmother} was hospitalized, as she was suffering from cancer... and she was just 52 kms far from us, so sometimes mummy use to visit her also...
It was a difficult time....
aaaah...
at-last got rid off...
but, today all the memories came just like a flash back in a fast forward way...
hmmmm....

can;t write anything more... :(

Sunday, August 4, 2013

For the people... who made my life memorable...

Hmmm... where to start from???
From the day I went to school n got some of you, or from the day I got introduced to some you through some mutual friend, who is not in the scene any more, or from the day I got some mischievous call n then got to know that it is just for masti or from the day I got you back in some social networking site n then found you much more mature, or you seem to be mature bt inside you were the same... hmmmm... 


Whenever it was,
wherever it was,
however it got started...
we fought,
we smiled...
no actually, we laughed
we giggled
we discussed
we planned...
we agreed
disagreed
advices
"gyaan''
bakwaas
Either u taught me what to do,
what not to do,
how to do,
how not to do,
what decision u must take,
n what u never have to...
Some of you also taught me the importance,
of relations,
of time,
of love n care,
of distance,
of money :P
of home
of faith
of temperament
of patience

criticism
makkhan-polish
egos
attitude
showtime
real care

anything
anytime
anyhow
anywhere
whatever
...
Just a big thank u for everything...


HAHAHHAHAHAAAA...
amused na??? No guys, seriously... I don't want to loose this opportunity to thank you all...
THANK YOU SO MUCH KAMINO... bahut ho gai izzat... :)
Love u all...
n really, thank u so much for being there to me always...
in my smiles n sorrows... :)

MUUUUAAAAAH...
{be wid me only, otherwise... }




Thursday, June 6, 2013

Listened him... after a long time... :(

It's not about some unknown person to you... its about the famous n awesome ghazal singer... Jagjit sing ji...
I'm really so sorry, but I don't have courage to add "late" in front of his name...
Well... this post is totally dedicated to him.
After 10th October 2011, today was the first day, when I listened him, otherwise I stopped listening to his ghazals, songs or bhajans. Not because he is not with us any-more, but because, I was totally unable to collect all that amount of courage that was needed to listen him. May be that was not the right way to pay the tribute to someone you loved to listen, always. But for me, that seems like something near to impossible. Even {I think it was January 2013 only}, my sister was listening him, and its on T.V., unfortunately I was sitting there. I myself controlled a lot, but unable... n then I cried like anything.
Don't know why, but there was a sort of attachment I found of his voice and my heart. I know, there are millions of people who loved him, adore him and they also found such attachment with him. And may be few are also mad like me, who were also unable to listen him anymore.
But, today after a long-long time... I listened him... and that is also by accident.
Cried a lil... but now I again start loving his voice as I do in past years.
Love you Jagjit ji... always
n u r here in our heart...

want to share that ghazal, which gave me my moment of love again...

Ghazal ka saaz uthao badi udas hai raat (Jagjit Singh)

Thursday, February 7, 2013

It took me back... and made my morning... :)

Some noisy voice broke my sleep... Someone was screaming someone's name, outside... And the bus was also buzzing the horn continuously... which was much more irritating...
Having the first flat in society, n in ground floor... can listen everything happening outside...
Just removed the curtain of the window, to see who is having such a loud voice... seen a young schoolboy in his school-dress, watching towards the upper floors of the building...
It was nearly 6.30 of the morning... {yes, I use to sleep till this time, until n unless don't have parents with me... }
Suddenly I seen another young boy running out from the building's entrance, having his shoes in his hands, and hanging his school bag on one shoulder, n the lunch bag in another hand... Given a very sweet n cute smile to his friend n said "sorry'' very charmingly... Don't know either he is also Libran or not, but he was having the same charm n innocence which we seen many years before...
Yes, this whole scene took me few years back... the same situation... the school-bus driver use to buzz horn n we all tried to make him on the time, but no... he can't be...
Just one thing was not here, Mumma was not screaming n no servant is behind him, holding his bag n water bottle...
Time... It plays a very strange role, always...
How strangely it reminds me of everything WE went through...
How sweetly it reminds me of many-many idiotic n stupid moments WE spent together...
How smartly it made a complete movie by many short innocent clips...
And tend ME to write such for YOU...



{This whole thing happened, reminds me of my younger brother n his school days... From the beginning to the end of his school life, he was the same... ''late-lateef''' n then he used to hypnotize his teachers by his sweet smile n get the permission to enter the class... I remembered, till the time we were in the same school, even the teachers get to know that I came late cause of him... but he never got punished... Don't know how he use to manage this... :) }